Wednesday, October 8, 2008

True Love and True Friend

True Love and True Friend

Why close our eyes when we sleep, when we wept, when we imagine, when we smooch?

This is because in the world not be visible.

We are all a bit strange ... and life itself is also quite strange ...
And when we find someone who is in line with our keunikannya.
We join with them and fall into a similar curiosity called love.

There are things - things that we do not want to release ...
People - people that we do not want to leave ...
But remember ... NOT release the end of the world, but beginning a new life.
Happiness to those who weep, they are tersakiti, they have been looking for, and they have to try.
Because they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

AGUNG love that is ...
Is when you shed tears and still is against the concerned ..
When he is not mempedulikanmu and you still waiting with the faithful
Is when he started to love other people and you can still smile saying, 'I am happy to take'

If love does not succeed ... BEBASKAN yourselves ...
Leave the heart back stretch its wings and fly to the outdoors ... MORE
... Remember that you may find love and the people ...
But, when love is dead ... you DO NOT need to die with it ...
Terkuat NOT people who always win, but they are still hard when they fall.
Somehow in the way of life, you learn about yourself and realize that there should be no remorse
HANYALAH appreciation of the eternal life of the options that you have created.

FRIENDS SEJATI ...
Understand when you say 'I forgot'
Wait forever when you say 'Wait a minute'
Staying when you said 'Leave me alone'
Opening the door even though you NOT knock and say 'Can I enter?'

MENCINTAI ...
IS NOT how you forget, but how you forgive.
Forgive ...
IS NOT how you listen, but how you understand.
UNDERSTAND ...
IS NOT what you see, but what you feel.

More dangerous, shed tears in the liver, compared to burst into tears.
Air out the eyes can be removed, while water eyes hidden scratch wound that will never be lost.

In affairs love, we very rarely win.
But when love is TULUS, even less, you FIXED WIN only be happy because you can love someone you love more from yourself.

Will be time where you should stop someone to love. NOT because the people we love, but stopped because we realize that more people will be happy when we release it.

If you are correct - true love someone, do not release him.
Do not believe that the release originally correct you - true love ... except for the BERJUANGLAH abashedly.
That is true love

Better wait for the person who you want to work together by the people 'available'.
Better wait for people who love you by the people who are at much time.
Better wait for the right people due to life's too short to be removed with only the 'someone'.

Sometimes, a person you love is that MOST people harrow heart, and sometimes, a friend who brought you into pelukannya and cry with love is that you do not know.
And now I find U'r ... .

Language of Love Making Long Age

Language of Love Making Long Age!

Affection and attention can reduce the risk of heart disease, so the results of a study conducted in the United States. True, too! This can be explained scientifically. According to Janice Kiecolt-Glaser, PhD, lecturer and Director of Health Psychology at Ohio State University College of Medicine, I can keep the stress hormones remain low. Sweet words of warmth and can also reduce the burden Carey.


This study shows that the language affect the level of cortisol is the stress hormones that control blood pressure affects. High blood pressure, which will increase the stress. According to Kiecolt-Glaser, women tend to have higher cortisol than men.

"With the high cortisol levels (2-3 times normal), women have the tendency of divorced after 10 years of marriage," he said. Actually this is still a rough conclusion, but believe it or not, in a study conducted during the ten years that proved that women with high cortisol can be dispersed more than two times. Well ...

Cortisol levels in men, not as suspected. Men have responded more slowly, long and short of the issues that received, including the wedding. Perhaps because of the attitudes cuek more than women.

Director of the Center for Relationship Therapy in Atlanta, David Woodsfellow, said that the marriage can increase the stress, in both the men and women. "Therefore, to muffle the wedding, there are good when paired maintain good communication," said Woodsfellow.

According to him, everyone has view of the principles and different, but they must start off ego and the still-poor nature of their ties so united in marriage. "Once married, you must be willing to share food, night, busy, holiday and bed! If done properly, it can reduce the burden of stress," said Woodsfellow.

While the age of affairs in the hands of God, but medically, the low level of stress can reduce the occurrence of disease-risk disease.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

TIPS `S true love

TIPS `S true love



#
DO NOT INTEREST TO's KARENA
our reasons may be the charm
misleading. Do not also interested to
because of the wealth of rich they can
destroyed. Only to someone
that this tale, because
only smile that can make
days into the dark and bright.
Hopefully, you find people like that.
#
There are times in life when you
very miss someone so
menjemputnya want hearts of dreamland
and fight the real nature. Hopefully
you dream of people like that.
#
Bermimpilah about what you want
impikan, go to the places you
want to go. Be that as you
want, because you only have
one life and one opportunity to
do you want to do.
#
Hopefully you get the bliss
enough for both to the heart, trial
enough to open for strong,
enough for the grief that made you
humane, the expectation is enough to
made you happy and enough money
to buy all the concoction.
#
When one door of happiness closes,
The other door was opened. But the light
we focused too long on
The door closed so that no
see the door opened for us.
#
The best is that he can
sit-swinging in the porch swing with,
without the katapun lines, and
and then you leave with
sentiment has been chatting with the old
#
Indeed true that we do not know what
that we have until we
people, but also quite correct
that we do not know what is not
we have until we get it
#
Pandanglah everything from eyeglasses
other people. If this is painful
heart, it is possible that
embitter other people also.
#
Words spoken carelessly
can be called a conflict. Words
that can devastate a cutthroat
life. Words spoken in
place can ease tensions.
Words of love that can be
cure and blessing.
#
The beginning of love is to let people
that we love to be himself
own, and not a change
the picture we want. Otherwise,
we love only the reflection of oneself
that we find itself in him.
#
Those most berbahagiapun
does not always have the best,
they just try to make the
the best from each of the present in his life.
#
Maybe God wanted us to meet
with some people the wrong before
meet with the right people, we
must understand how grateful
on the Bounty.
#
Only the time needed to semenit
gage a person, an hour to love
and a day for someone to love
someone, but needed time
lifetime to forget someone.
#
Happiness is available for those who
crying, their hearts accountability moment,
they are looking for and they are
try. Because they are the only
appreciate the importance of those who
ever present in their lives.
#
Love is when you lose a sense,
passion, and still romantika
on the matter.
#
It is sad in life
when you meet someone who
is very meaningful for and find the
However that does not end there, and
you must remove it.
#
Love begins with a smile,
grow with a kiss and
ends with a tear drop.
#
Love came to their
dikecewakan never even hope,
to those who still believe
never even betrayed, to
they still love it
had heart accountability moment.
#
Indeed painful to love someone
that is not being, but more
painful is to love someone
and never have the courage
abashedly to describe him.
#
Future always depends on
in the past is forgotten. You
can not continue with the good life if
you do not forget the failure and pain
hearts in the past.
#
Never say goodbye
stay if you still want to try,
never surrender if you still
feel great, do not ever say
So do not you if you
still can not.
#
To provide all abashedly
someone is not a guarantee he will
abashedly reply. Do not expect
I reply, wait until the love
developed in the heart, but if
not, exciting because I grew up in the heart.
#
There are things that you want
but not with you will never
hear from people that you expect
for it. However,
Do not deafen the ears to
hear from people who said
with wholeheartedly.
#
The time you were born, you cry and
people in so much time to smile.
Jalanilah life so that at the time
you die, you smile and
people in so much time crying

Saturday, September 13, 2008

bother second be in love

bother second be in love

saya love you. ” three briefly words but loaded with meaning so deepen. only necessary said from mouth, he enough has made somebody heart has been more fly. but when does manner luahan that done with interest creative, sure second this be moment most have a meaning.
1. write and tampal
write pronunciation loves above sekeping little note and tampal in place is not guessed. the example at kerusi or carriage facia the he or at usury computer or at bewspaper yard that membacanya.
2. advertisement at bewspaper
love that sememang enthrall so that carried over with love wave. love may make pair less recover consciousness, even love also teach that pair erti sanity.
by prove troth loves you hadapnya, do something that is not guessed by put into advertisement menerusi bewspaper often read and declaim a poetic love you to it.
3. book to love
register trip story loves you two in a book. send novel on happiest you two. the example on valentine, day soes or love affairs anniversary you two.
4. order loves
rakam orders trivial lines loves you hadapnya or sing a hobby song you two, then send to it. sophisticateder, leave order loves menerusi respect voice order or voice mail, menerusi mp3 or video call to unfold your love hadapnya.
5. collection sms
gather all sms or e-mel love you accept thereof and write in a book. then, send book to it. put package era with time penghantaran sms or e-mel that sent that. this manner proves you appreciate every what mengucapkannya.
6. all right finger speaks
do finger game each time meet with him. write words loves you at every hujung finger at moment he holds tight jari-jemari.
7. composed puzzle
send game puzzle bertulis i am love you menerusi respect briefly order or sms. will send one per one word so that the he impatient will wait for every font that you will send to it.
8. love in 100 languages
learn to declare ’saya love kamu’ in 100 languages and send to it every day.
9. send high noon dish
moment you send the favorite dish, don't forget to pin pronunciation ’saya love kamu’ above box polisterina. menghantar mesej love in sebiji also give epistle meaning to it.

tips to survive in long distance love affairs

tips to survive in long distance love affairs

crowded that ask to us tips how to survive in long distance love affairs. diverse feeling merunsing, sadden and memening when do we stay in situation love this long distance. various guess and cabaran necessary we face.
many stories whom we have heard to hit this case. there that can survive and there kecundang. cry and sad very-very when the he change heart caused loneliness taste. but so, here, we want to share with you all about to survive in long distance love affairs.
trust in pair
when are we far apart with pair, we want to believe with the he. ever read 5 tips in berpasangan? in tips that is there declared how the important we are mutual trust in berpasangan this. will believe in the he he loyal and still to love us although we present far from he.
loyal although far
really various guess whom we face when we are far apart. when are we far apart, we asa lonely. one who always we meet, suddenly now far from eye. and when does far apart, heart is lonely. and in time here's kith is penyeri. but so, although we still has friend, only friend. cheerful with friend unlike cheerful when we are together with our pair. here, there kecundang. there bercouple with friend is caused asa lonely. fikirkan, is feeling our pair when know we disloyal? and put our self in place he. is we happy and like if we are made such?
meet although at the same moment
don't make far that as reason. love to beed commitment. love also responsibility. although far, cuba look for time to meet with the he. suppose the youth sits far at north semenangjung and the girl sits at hujung south peninsula, cuba look for appropriate time to meets. at least even also if (there are) any sabbatical. don't doesn't meet direct. beyond question yearn at heart more will rebel when we are far apart. so, when is there that leisure time, plan to meet. beyond question this slice again connection and can mengurang taste yearn that.
ask khabar
every evening before sleep that if may cuba call the he ask khabar. make according to interval seli. today you call he. tommorow he also. herewith new la same felt difficult and glad. don't will expect the he is simple that call you. beyond question he will feel difficult to will contact you if he is simple necessary call you. really love to beed commitment but he will be difficult when half simple side that gives commitment. so sama-sama help in build this love affairs.
greet anniversary with
sekira not busy, cuba greet birthday or anniversary per-couple-an together. sekira birthday that fall on work, greet together in hujung week. free time with to at the same moment beyond question can mengembira between one another. although that discovery only temporary, but when meet together while greet birthday beyond question adamant chisel at heart. may be you will smile alone when will memoriam to return sweet memory sebegitu.
don't make distance as destroyer
love long distance really difficult. really meronta-ronta when yearn that come heart. when keseorangan, beyond question we asa very that yearning. but remember, don't make that far distance as destroyer loves you. will make him as one cabaran that will give you bouncyer to will devolve to love that.
end word, walauapapun existing hindrance, don't make him as reason and hindrance. but make him as something that can add our affection to the he. when does far we felt to yearn not? so far that not one case not good only he is one of [the] manner to foster our affection taste and teach us to be a loyal darling.

love responsibility

love responsibility

old pulak ye? ), i am takde la sonny fikir very hit to love this. ala…masa formerly tu more like berjumba-jumba with kith. not fikir again for bound and shoulder responsibility ni. and this time, when be in love, i hit bertanggungjawab with love me this, mrs teddy la… who again kan…
why love one responsibility? for me, certain love to be one responsibility for us sekira we bind to to get to love that. same la also with perkahwinan. when do we bind to berkahwin, we hit bertanggungjawab as a husband or as a wife.
in context loves this also, should that responsibility there. we are must give our affection in our sweetheart is that. word, want to be in love kan? so, hit bertanggungjawab in give affection. not la free word agrees to be in love or berkapel, then we may leave sebegitu simple?
besides than give affection, we also bertanggungjawab in vacate time together with our darling is that. if for man doesn't like bershopping but the this darling likes bershopping, we hit to come along. his friend goes shopping.
if dah tired tu look for la which kerusi near stall tu and take a seat berehat temporary the our girl is this membelek-belek sandal or coat at stall. if buy takpe la jugak kan? this not, passionate membelek-belek and mencuba-cuba sahaj. hehehe. but, reminded, ascertain the he is in our radar environment. later lost kang, satisfied pulak we are sonny looks for. kan difficult tu?
for also girl, hit self responsibility ism. if the busy youth with tugasan daily, don't sonny is added again bebanan that. we hit there responsibility in realize feeling our pair. we hit to know what he likes and what does he not like. we also must help the he is if he beeds our support. give spirit words and motivation so that the he is awarded taste.
as conclusion, sekira you want to be in love, you must ready to shoulder responsibility. for my opinion, be in love to be one manner for us learn in shoulder responsibility before we can have a title as spouse. kerana, beyond question shoulder responsibility as heavier spouse than with be in love simple.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

mutual believe and honest happy key

mutual believe and honest happy key

not all pairs can mencipta happiness to tempoh old ones.
there only can to perpetuate connection for time range short. not less lonely flutter doesn't can to resque conditon.
petua next perhaps may be made pilot to perpetuate connection so that go along way.
trust what seen and heard without doubtfulness. for you, what be may be talked about unnecessary menyangsi kerana he there truth with may import kindness in communication. but careful kerana may be in this way the he may 'snare' you.
guard pair. the example, the he comes bick of time menjanjikan and may get your opinion. this have a meaning, you may 'guard' self than me do case whom you may not like.
whatever, he not bererti you mengongkong but if the he is menuruti your wish, this have a meaning the he trusts you and doesn't doubt by you.
commitment not merely menepati promise but also appreciate agreement mempersetujui with. if you and or the he dares to give commitment and correlating crass in communication, of course perhu bungan cheerful with happyly.
attitude mutual will trust form in self ma sing-masing will colour again communication you two. even, he will make the he cockier with your honesty to him. justeru, not reason to the he dishonest operative.
honesty really necessary to guarantee happy communication. you bot cricket hides case properly known pair.
if you and the he is honest, this make you two bot afraid berbahas kerana have a notion him for kindness correlatings same.
despite of the time is blazed tiff kerana each want to present opinion self, ak born it you and pair will take decision to will choose best opinion by will guarantee stable communication.
accept seada. intimacy key in a per connection get seada pair bad good.
when has heart pity, of course you are able me nerima although menyedari sure there negative case hit it.
explanation. partly individual big wish for pair not only hear opinion half side even wise present opinion self.
you also of course hope the he understands your opinion towards various case. otherwise, may be per only horizontal connection.
not that, also may emerge caused doesn't realize feeling and consider self not at esteem.
sympathy effort to give explanation more deepen but not easy to do so.
but, when does glorious evoke sympathy, majority pair can to overcome case may menim bul falling-out and opinion disagreement.
sure taste permits you give opinion with the he is either in the case of remeh-temeh up to to serious case.
you will feel the he bot only will hear even will keep rahsia you.
you and the he really can not run than perbezaan opinion. they are that try too hard to deny or afraid admit self berbeza opinion with pair usually a doesn't look full in the face fact.
not may be you and pair sentiasa same opinion on the contrary, must compromise to show to dewasaan each.
will love true be coloured by explanation and taste to be forgiven kerana grudge may be punca communication destruction.
although ever hurt, feeling will grudge and or mem will reply to return deed may be will not be rushed by at fikiran. berdendam not best completion road even he uglify again conditon.
veracity and honesty plays role important in communication, bot only from deed aspect even pertuturan.
what want to submitted with intention as honest as may be and bot merely to protect mistake






























not all pairs can mencipta happiness to tempoh old ones.
there only can to perpetuate connection for time range short. not less lonely flutter doesn't can to resque conditon.
petua next perhaps may be made pilot to perpetuate connection so that go along way.
trust what seen and heard without doubtfulness. for you, what be may be talked about unnecessary menyangsi kerana he there truth with may import kindness in communication. but careful kerana may be in this way the he may 'snare' you.
guard pair. the example, the he comes bick of time menjanjikan and may get your opinion. this have a meaning, you may 'guard' self than me do case whom you may not like.
whatever, he not bererti you mengongkong but if the he is menuruti your wish, this have a meaning the he trusts you and doesn't doubt by you.
commitment not merely menepati promise but also appreciate agreement mempersetujui with. if you and or the he dares to give commitment and correlating crass in communication, of course perhu bungan cheerful with happyly.
attitude mutual will trust form in self ma sing-masing will colour again communication you two. even, he will make the he cockier with your honesty to him. justeru, not reason to the he dishonest operative.
honesty really necessary to guarantee happy communication. you bot cricket hides case properly known pair.
if you and the he is honest, this make you two bot afraid berbahas kerana have a notion him for kindness correlatings same.
despite of the time is blazed tiff kerana each want to present opinion self, ak born it you and pair will take decision to will choose best opinion by will guarantee stable communication.
accept seada. intimacy key in a per connection get seada pair bad good.
when has heart pity, of course you are able me nerima although menyedari sure there negative case hit it.
explanation. partly individual big wish for pair not only hear opinion half side even wise present opinion self.
you also of course hope the he understands your opinion towards various case. otherwise, may be per only horizontal connection.
not that, also may emerge caused doesn't realize feeling and consider self not at esteem.
sympathy effort to give explanation more deepen but not easy to do so.
but, when does glorious evoke sympathy, majority pair can to overcome case may menim bul falling-out and opinion disagreement.
sure taste permits you give opinion with the he is either in the case of remeh-temeh up to to serious case.
you will feel the he bot only will hear even will keep rahsia you.
you and the he really can not run than perbezaan opinion. they are that try too hard to deny or afraid admit self berbeza opinion with pair usually a doesn't look full in the face fact.
not may be you and pair sentiasa same opinion on the contrary, must compromise to show to dewasaan each.
will love true be coloured by explanation and taste to be forgiven kerana grudge may be punca communication destruction.
although ever hurt, feeling will grudge and or mem will reply to return deed may be will not be rushed by at fikiran. berdendam not best completion road even he uglify again conditon.
veracity and honesty plays role important in communication, bot only from deed aspect even pertuturan.
what want to submitted with intention as honest as may be and bot merely to protect mistake

be careful choose pair

be careful choose pair

Percintaan among adolescent often membimbang mother bapa. however, adolescent can not be stymied than be in love kerana sememang that is human natural tendency. apatah again adolescent bew identifieds to love enough pleasant perfominged feeling in be in love.
what is necessary every adolescent necessary know why they be in love. is kerana solitude, cuba increase self-confidence or you sememang itchy mahu be in love?
they also necessary wise restrain to love positively kerana love adolescent bring negative impression. on the contrary, love that controlled well can be made push for adolescent increase development sahsiah their self.
everything your reason to bes, careful in choose pair. next between reason often happen to adolescent when mahu be in love. he may be may help you so that carefuler in choose pair and avoid them as much as this.
1. be in love kerana pity
- love that provided by pity taste may menidak rational. they are may be know has pair inappropriate, but kerana influenced pity taste, feeling that will gone off hand.
love like this easy crack if that pity feeling more berkurangan. if this is operative, the girl more asa the impression kerana they are man easiest puts pity in proportion to man.
2. ikut-ikut to be in love
- this group bes kerana pressure than another person. adolescent that feel to depress kerana all kiths has darling while he has stilled single. this conditon push it to looks for darling while lewa. in erti word other, provided there darling.
3. be in love kerana mahu dominate
- there partly adolescent get strong push to dominates another person. his the habit is operative in somebody that likes to make regulation, force idea and too hunt aim. berikutan that, they are easy leaves pair if their wish not menuruti.
4. be in love kerana desire
- his the habit is influenced by sexual pulling. for example, man will choose pair section manakala the girl more to beefy man, handsome and strong.
pair will like this final will attitude to one rank kesedaran form fizikal not segala-gala in love affairs.
5. be in love to compete
- often operative to adolescent able bersusah-payah to grab darling by to beat the competitor. he only mahu victory and rather than by darling. even, he also menyulami character grudges and offended. triumph grabs also assumed as victory simbol although he is actually doesn't love the pair.
6. be in love
kerana rebel
- majority adolescent doesn't like when mother bapa consider them like moppet and necessary mengikut various regulation. sehubungan that, adolescent this look for pair merely to show sign protests towards mother bapa so that he is seen adulter.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

meaning loves actually

meaning loves actually

when is somebody in love sometimes membuta self to has the ideal pair. but sometimes that thing bot applicable caused by matter that must considering to has your ideal pair. there are some meaning about love that declare that what that love truthfully or love that according to desire merely.
love to stand on in feeling all at once common sense. somebody that fall in love sometimes use feeling or heart merely but otherwise want to evoke confusion later on day best you also must use common sense. big lie if you can fall in love without ceremony without can avoid. truthfully happen, process falls to influenced tradition, habit, standard, brainchild and ideal where do you come group. big lie also if felt may go to any length moment fall in love and can not memintai responsibility moment deeds impulsif that have consequences bad in a moment later. is losing perspective not your sign in love but that be idiocy signal.
love to want process. love usually grow and bloom that be complex emotion. to grow and bloom, love to want time. so really not may be you love somebody not found out the genealogy without ceremony. love never assault suddenly, not also fall from sky. love to come only moment two individual made a success of orientation has repeated towards alive and decide to choose another person as new focus. may be happen in phenomenon ‘cinta in opinion pertama’ pair is attacked feeling mutual interested very strong even until madly in love. then feeling kompulsif that bloom to so to love without go through rest time. in case ‘cinta in opinion pertama’, many people not genuinely love the pairs but have a crush on concept loves itself. on the contrary with one who genuinely mencinta because they love pair as persolinatas according to intact.
love doesn't dominate and succumb but mutual share. if you are wishful to controls your pair so that is the name doesn't love. if you ready to succumb just for darling satisfaction, that is even also doesn't love. one who mencinta doesn't consider the darling as higher or subordinate but as pair to mutual share, also to identify self. when are you wishful dominate darling (limit the association, prohibit it beraktivitas positive, regulate the taste berbusana) or always succumb (doesn't protest when darling makes bad, not objection menomorduakan) means you not yet ready give and get to love.
love that is constructive. individual mencinta, make as well possible on own account all at once by (pride) pair. he dares ambitious, dream constructive and plan future. on the contrary fall in love impulsif rather than think and act constructive but he loses ambition, desire eats and interest towards problem everyday. thought only individual misery and the fantasy even also not may be reached. even
that fantasy can be subsitusi fact.
love doesn't remove all problems. for follower understand romantic trust that love can overcome problem and love can be medicine from all disease (panacea). poverty and many problem other be believed can be overcome with have a supply to love merely. the fact, love only can make a pair darling look full in the face problem. troubleshoot as heavy as whatever may be approached limpidly so that get the solution. if you middle at drunk love so inclined membuta your eye moment will get problem so that will override problem.
love inclined constant. love really move constant and you are fitting suspicious when is graph feeling you in pair fluctuate incisively. if moment far you felt your pair more hebar than moment with, that is your sign is mengidealisasikan not realistically. so that moment you return with so you look at great moment you close to one another with him and not again feel matter same moment he is far. that thing indicate you are deceived with the physical fascination. because love counted well when moment near and far from pair so you always like it in degree same.
love not convergent in physical fascination. in love affair really that physical fascination is important. but when will you like only limit of physical and hate it to many another factors. moment fall in love, you enjoy and give important meaning for every physical contact. because physical contact only asa fun when you and pair mutual like personalitas each. when do you consider physical contact only give sensation fun without meaning anything so that not love but desire merely. in love, afeksi materialized later moment connection more in. desire is demanding only physical satiation from beginning meeting.
love not blind but get. one who mencinta see and realize darling bad side. because magnitude love so he must try to get and brook. sure there willing so that that bad side improves but must be provided by attention and good purpose. there may not be any coarse criticism, denial, kegeraman or disgust. blind desire. although your pair is very bad so braids connection vehemently get without willing repairs. after the willing will be be satisfied so you will be left, this matter just because you have a little bit wickedness actually can be repaired.
love to pay attention aftermath connection. somebody genuinely mencinta will pay strong arm connection development. he avoids every thing may be botch connection. sebisa may be he do action that can brace, defend and improve connection. somebody that madly in love may be is making fun darling. but that effort only is done so that darling accepts it so that reached satisfaction that aimed. one who mencinta fun pair to brace connection.
love to dare to do painful matter. if somebody genuinely mencinta, bot merely make it up to the darling but has also attention, concern, explanation and courage to do matter unwelcome darling to the good. say ‘tidak’ when really he want to do unfavourable something that for self. so should every pair must mutual share and remind about a certain good matter and or bad. that's meaning loves truthfully.
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Saturday, July 12, 2008

tips love: 10 attitudes ‘terlalu’ must be avoided moment connected

tips love: 10 attitudes ‘terlalu’ must be avoided moment connected

attitude ‘terlalu’ this is very dangerous in communication sekira is not guarded. he may be can menjejas harmonic connection or be falling-out cause that repeat in sesebuah connection. by that's better we spy self sekira we face phenomenon ‘terlalu’ in our self.
10 ‘terlalu’ that endanger this:
1. too spoiled
woman spoiled character often mengaitkan as a(n) pulling power aloof. many mans that like the darling indulgence, kerana he can arouse character protect it.
but don't indulgence over do. woman too spoiled seumpama moppet mengada-ngada. most uk karenah woman too spoiled appear bad publicly. certain will disgrace the man friend.
2. too closed
such also with attitude too closed, this matter will retard communication. while communication of vital importance for watch over harmony every connection. good man mahupun woman wants to detect experience, feeling and the pair willing.
3. too opened
one who posed usually fun and intimate. but attitude too opened also kadangkala becoming not fun. one who too opened usually uncover the heart contents without see situation and conditon, difficult keep rahsia and worse habit speaks formerly, think then with melampau had border.
4. too quarrelsome
there partly woman less menyedari, how does woman obsolence too quarrelsome. if a mother fusses at the child that still little may be admit of forgiven. but fuss at darling very overcrowd, although with reason “kerana i am pity padamu”.
5. too sensitive
woman too high-strung or sensitive will make the darling will felt not free to unfold perasaa, kerana afraid hurt the heart. while in love affair sihat both parties should mutual unfold the feeling freely.
kadangkala also can mengguris feeling woman too sensitive so that the pair not mood to berlawak funny for menceria atmosphere.
6. too mengongkong
man needs freedom or space to do aktiviti menyukainya, to elaborate what mempelajarinya, to associate with the friends and to be th.
if woman too mengongkong, may be for the pair can survive or realize it, but not for. he final bored and struggle so that may menjejas connection.
7. too memperlekeh
man frowns upon woman doesn't appreciate it, even less memperlekehkan. woman necessary posed wiseer to doesn't make man felts to humiliated either by attitude mahupun pronunciation that scatterred.
when do you want to repair your darling too much the weakness, you necessary push it to change little by little dgn manner properly iaitu not memperlekehkan.
8. too has
there is no a even also really want has by another person. of course he is your darling, but not property peribadi you.
so to let him has also by th, by the friends, by the family and by another person.
9. too menyanjungi
habit admires and mutual appreciate really necessary. besides to huddle connection, he also important to increase your darling self confidence taste.
but if you excessively bribe it meritoriously and flattery, you bot even merosak erti as true as praise, but also make the he felts bored. he also considers you dishonest.
10. too demand
although man necessary mempacu the spirit, but too demand not a good way. also there had the patience in melayan karenah the pair too demand that and this. finally he will so bored and not again mahu follow the pair wish.
source:
http://tips-tipscinta.blogspot.com

Important matter that must you know before braid to love with somebody

Important matter that must you know before braid to love with somebody

want your connection with fluent pair and eternal? correct reading formerly tips next, procedural build life loves that well with the he.
wise choose pair.
look at character, personality, self value, liberality, manner speaks, action, with how does he relate to another person.
know opinion and confidence the he.
sure you not want to fall in love with somebody that has bad reputation in the love affairs connection, not? for example, the he often found out disingenuous and often lie.
don't be confused sex with love.
especially at beginning a connection, interest and delight does coitus often menyalahartikan as love menggebu from pair.
understand need and discuse clearly.
many people, good also woman, afraid to declare the need. remember, nearness not ambulatory good without honesty, and pair not a paranormal or expert reads idea.
mutual appreciate.
either in in also outside love affair, best you and the he is mutual show awarded proper attitude each pair.
you and the he is as compact team.
mean, you two be two individual unique, has perspective and different surpluss. these differences is value plus from a compact team in does many matters both.
know manner manageds difference.
learn negative feeling way to overcome inescapable, caused by difference between you and pair. isolate xself or avoid also not a manner manageds good difference!
don't be shy ask.
if you don't understand or not like one of [the] matter that done pair, ask to it. talk about openly and develop discussion in which are positive atmosphere, and don't ever assuming.
overcome that problem.
a large part error that in a love affair, traceable from offended taste appearance, or attitude that change to be defensive towards the pair, so that ciptalah two person mutual felt foreigns or hostile.
learn to negotiating.
by because human need and life demand always fluctuate along with walk it time, so love affair that well and good can menegosiasikan repeat every moment with pair.
listen solicitude and pair complaint.
don't go into effect attitude judges towards pair. expose x'self and give empathy to pair.
try to maintain nearness.
good connection and well, bot such a final purpose, but be long-range process necessary always watched over and defended, pass constant attention and regular.
has long-range opinion.
marriage is agreement with to endure and spend life up to old day later. recheck your fantasy is with pair regularly, to ascertain you two reside in road and stripe always same.
good sex.
that sex is very easy is done, but watch over nearness exactly difficult. nearness wants honesty, openness, self disclosure, share solicitude and fear, and so do sadness, hope with fantasy. so, don't ever go to sleep in a stew.
apologize.
everyone can make error. repair, or intend to repair error, of vital importance for happiness you two, also a marriage.
koid dependence overs do.
depending to somebody is not bad, but very depend on pair for little matters is unhappiness gap for second pair.
guard selfrespect and self confidence taste.
easier for somebody to like and reside in near you if you even also like ownself.
enrich connection you two.
create new interests into your love affair so that the connection with the he is more richer. life passion ever greater whom you have and share with pair, more richer connection you two.
good agreement.
share responsibility with pair. love affair that well success only if happen according to two directions, that is with reciprocate and get.
know connection ebb.
where also, every love affair certain will pass by pair the lessened each. pass difficult times with pair, will make your connection will be stronger.
has sensitivity on bad connection
don't melari self if love affair begins to deteriorate. use this bad experience as mirror to see into self, so that can understand what you two create in this connection.
bothing;there is no love absolute.
if you learn manners or tips new for interacted with the he, feeling in love with always can appear and appear again, even can stronger than previous.
source:
www. compass. com/read/xml/2008/05/25/11545955/tips. important. before. braid.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Broken off to love, man lonelyer

Broken off to love, man lonelyer
daughter fatia - detikhot

jakarta although woman cries while only quiet, doesn't mean class adam this is strong faces to broken off to love. even follow a watchfulness, man always tearfuler than woman.
several watchfulness prove depression levels, stress, and man anxiety mortallyer than woman pasca broken off to love. melansir yahoo, friday (20/4/2007), this matter is possibility is caused because man character characteristics. correct reading the explanation:
man often cover ill the heart
hey, time a man nangis. may be such that rushed by at man brain. the self-satisfy by illed temperament most go with several boy friend and end srewed. the kernel, man sometimes dislike to show the sad feeling when brokens off with the darling. he felt must always rigid appear.
while woman majority direct cry or curhat in friend so love it memputus. so also when decide to love, woman usually speak to what existence and direct take outside to what the heart contents. the kernel, woman looks the sad taste while man many holds back reaction or the feeling. eventually, all congest and difficult throwed away.
man doesn't has many friends
so experience broken heart, almost entire direct womans unfolds heart contents or tell to bearness friend. friend can mother, friend, neighbour, office friend, or even taxi driver menaikinya after leave the darling. watchfulness proves man often hang up the emotional nearness in the darling. while has one million places besides the darling.
a more regular man contains the feeling and try to convince th if he is well. at least new then man realize and dare to unfold in bearness friends if he wants to return in the darling.
man hates beginning bew
so broken off, man usually feel a little kegembiran. can make a date and tempt many womans. hunt new darling and others. but after date first, second, and third, final satisfied taste even also bumps into. he is even also realize to still long the way to find freshment same like in the darling formerly.
follow watchfulness, mentally usually woman more will make to broken off to love while man seldom think connection end. and usually, new man realizes how valuable former the darling and how does he lose self after berbulan-bulan broken off to love. the result, the woman far has restored self and all late.
man berpatok in imagination
broken off to love also often caused because man felts be fed up with the darling, date same, falling-out same, and miscellaneous sometime later make it satisfied. so broken off, he will think direct will meet and make a date with many woman. although dream genuinely happen secretly he felts to lose intimacy and his previous freshment can from the former darling.
watchfulness proves, woman usually quicker realizes if fondasi from durable connection intimacy. while man usually more think sex so that final they are orientation wrong. (fta/fta)
source:
www. detikhot. com

5 connection destroying force problems

5 connection destroying force problems
daughter fatia, yulia oil lamp - detikhot

Jakarta obvious after pulled conclusion, problem total variation often happen in household actually bot many. there five matters usually often happen and always drive pair in divorce. everything?
melansir ivillage, tuesday (5/6/2007) there five matters that assumed always be wedding internal issue. five the mentioned among others money, fight opinion, less sex, children, and perselingkuhan. when does that thing often happen, must not mean wedding must be ended. there are some matter that can you do.
selingkuh
you memergoki pair selingkuh? unnecessary as soon as that say word separates. really in several cases, perselingkuhan done to end connection, but not always such. perselingkuhan actually can be seen as signal if there not neat in your connection. signal if your pair not happy.
but doesn't mean him want to go. if you berhati big and talk about this problem with pair, can your connection be saved. do changes that can make your connection spring to like formerly. in a few case perselingkuhan even brace connection because good husband or wife must same do change.
best you do:
1. you certain startled when hear news perselingkuhan pair. don't be direct make decision important about your household future although push from person around very strong.
2. if wedding wants to resqued, your pair must promise if he will stop to meet selingkuhan that. if not, choice to leave him can you consider.
3. when did you calm, try to speak well with pair. look for to know what make it to make such.
4. ask in your self self, what yangt so that perselingkuhan not happen again change.
5. if still not yet success also, have recourse professional to do wedding counselling.
debate about something long problem
there 2 why does pair argue. first, you or pair may be not has ability to calm conflict or muffle debate towards a certain problem. problem which is on beginning your connection ignore. but more farer, problem more menganggu and difference more asa, you even also more sultryer. when do you try to finish problem, late, too far, and you are difficult chase it.
second reason, you and pair always contain and avoid if there a problem. will hope all well.
will hope problem finished along with time. your pair not paranormal, he can not read your idea. don't be afraid to speak, don't be afraid unfold feeling. don't will hope time that finish it.
so?
1. find problem which during the time hid at the opposite of surface. given the problems that sprag or latent, connection andan and pair certain it more near.
2. discuss with, otherwise can, have recourse konselor professional. this alive will not ever get problem, will so to useless you are blurred because find it again in other day.
3. for light problems, finish calmly, can also be ended with embrace, joke, or request sorries honest.
4. not there fun decision for second side. you and pair not can force upon completion as according to your manner. learn to negotiating, look for best a middle course for you two.
5. don't he is troubleshoot, so there chance, finish direct your problem. don't wait problem piles up.
pair shakes ngeseks
sexual desire important matter in a connection. normal matter if desire fade. but doesn't mean to lost absolutely. if such that, may be there wrong in your connection. because it bot merely caused by your connection internal issue, but can also because disease, medicine, way of thinking condition likes stress or depression.
step rescuing it:
1. invite pair does to check up. to investigate the well-being.
2. if lose that sex desire is caused because lose job or several failures in the alive, give support in your pair. rebuild taste believes self. so self begins upraised again, that desire certain also will reappear.
3. may be there are some matter that make your pair is afraid or dislike to be in love. try to invite him speak and find the answer.
4. koid situation stress as many as possible. if there relaxed time, use to go on vacation or rest a moment from matters that make dizzy everyday.
5. can your pair physically felt less self confidence. give him praise or create atmosphere that make him felt section.
children
especially for parents tiri, children tiri often be problem. be parents tiri can creat many problems. your pair is certain it wants to do best for the child and according to your principle agrees with him. the practice, you sometimes felt ignored and sometimes wounded with prila the child. this kind emotion can creat your connection internal issue.
not only stepchild, child self also often make dizzy and connection menegang. begin from child education exercise up to difference child punishment exercise principle. besides also often make attention for your pair decreases.
peace steps:
1. don't be scrambling attention with your stepchild. once you do this, war with the stepchild not end.
2. bothing;there is no the wrong sometimes succumb by peace. don't impress arogan and want to win self in front of they.
3. don't too take serious their negative attitude. ketidaksukaan they not genuinely in you and their anger is actually is attributed in their parents.
4. if fail also, better you give way. let them has your pair thoroughly periodically. another time remainder, can be spent with you.
5. bothing;there is no the wrong sometimes you leave child at home parents and go on vacation both. unnecessary far, watch cinema or go to mal both also possible good holiday so that you two can focus and give full attention in your pair.
money
finance planning important part in life, but sometimes money bot merely merely money. sometimes the problem there about power. power regulates money and spend money as according to willing each. has different style in spends the money. that thing usually bequeathed from parents education or family each.
then what?
1. keep in mind to how you are taught to regulate money, then study also your pair manner. with, you choose best some ways. this matter can evoke feeling awarded in your pair.
2. if your income is bot more big from your pair, best you don't too busy regulate. esteem contribution from your pair. don't want it to regulate self, talk about all with because after get married bo more 'i' or 'you'.
3. berikah expenditure special posts that can be regulated self by your pair. for example for individual things or expense.
4. if finance problem suddenly be big problem in a few this month, try to think, what actually happen. what happen power reshuffle in your household. study matters everything that can this problem trigger. (fta/fta)
source:
www. detikhot. com

Monday, June 30, 2008

tips your ideal pair:

tips your ideal pair:





ideal love pair of course that can fulfil your need. for example you like life glamor so ideal pair that can melimpahi you with matter. but actually this matter factor that is seed in surface. there miscellaneous necessary you consider in choose alive pair:



1. sincere and honest

attention that given to you don't pretend or based on purpose. you also can sure that he. honest in th, you and ones at vinicity. expecting him to can honest display merimu what existence, don't too much polish self. thereby your pair memnunjuk self actually.



2. can appreciate difference

he is permanent can appreciate your decision although you have manner look at different with him.



3. maturity and responsibility

somebody marking has achieved individual maturity when has somebody readied to help memcah problem, doesn't break a promise. when does he not has maturity and responsibility, you will felt not pleasant menyampingnya.



4. has self belief

he not easy drifted, not easy offended, and doesn't consider merimu as threat. if your pair doesn't has self confidence taste, difficult for you to in parallel with him in many matters.



5. opened emotionally

he wants to share good feeling when glad and or difficult. emotional openness indicates also that he trust you and felt pleasant at near you.



6. has attention

attention can melanggeng love affair. but don't you kagum-kagum with him. he even also must has feeling same in you.

Monday, June 23, 2008

10 trik make girl 'chase's guy

10 trik make girl 'chase's guy

guy really destined aggresiveer than girl. that's why final guy be side more many chase than mengejar-kejar. but now, by dozens girl" madly in love" to guy and try to chase it. this is clear is seen, bot merely at movies story, sinetron or novel. but also at real life. how so that that thing happen in your self?
follow, there 10 manners that believed effective make girls" madly in love" same guy -yang quoted from various sumber-:
1. honest and gentle
actually, not difficult case makes him 'visit' you. of course origin knows its way. like this one of them, so you felt to come in contact with a girl seseuai by what mengidam-idamkan, so indication that is you honest man, polite, all at once charming. show also if you tuh very enthusiastic to listen the story. if you can be seen like that, may simply girls future want nempel then.
2. don't too much evaluate
this is here habit often done many guys -cewek also sih-. while everybody know, there is no perfect human or nobody's perfect. yeah, who not peevish. if menilai-nilai then, also future resentful girl. even less if membanding-bandingkan with girl other, possible he is even keep away you.
3. don't tie up
you may like it, all at once will hope him will like you of course. but not then you curb or tie up it. give him movement space. the purpose don't keseringan push self around he. let him menebak-nebak, where do you present, in pursuance of is whatting and same who. origin knows, your absence is that, exactly can menumbuh yearning in self.
4. willing
moment he tells a certain, show impression that you interested and enthusiastic listen the story. show also that you ready to listen complaint and the heart precipitation. i don't know story usually or family problem, job, hobby, until mimpi-mimpi. don't forget to receive cerita-cerita with brilliant opinion, without impress menggurui.
5. many smiles
ready made public secret if that smile has been one of [the] ace weapon to menebar enchantment. even also, word experts, smile that be positive thinking that somebody self reflection. well, if you really love to smile, so contagious habit to girl that estimated. its way? make he smile via joke you throw.
but remember, don't be selfish, . don't only he is you make to smile, but better if you can make the friends even also the family to smile also. try see the result, he is certain more spellbound with you. even less research proves if 9 from 10 womans prefers tall sense of humor that guy.
6. so best
be best, not then you do matters actually must not can melakoni. don't force upon self, be the best you can be. not difficult kok. you certain know what menggemari girls? with come up clean, fragrant, fresh breath, and not too in a mess, girl certain a lot leer.
7. don't chase ahe
try to hold back willing launches action beforehand. you must rather patient, you may menelepo, but don't excessively -selusin time in a day for example. try also to not often send sms or e-mail its contents full of bullshit. seperlu, but try so that discussion contents -kalau menelepon- enough have a meaning and make him spellbound.
8. sell expensive a little
this be continuation or form other from advice that prohibit guy to chase girl ahe. although may be the girl knows right that you actually want and " madly in love" same he, try deh keukeuh to doesn't serve to what to want it. is pretending easy-going if you at bearness.
9. let him menebak-nebak
it is important to know that, being that girl the name will love has mysterious, lho. that's why many girls that be stories writer berbumbu adventures and mysterious, like agatha christie or enid blyton. make him like that. its way?
don't be direct open self. give him a little about who actually you. the exercise, if direct will open self possible he bored and say" not there challenge again" . so it let taste wants to the know it about your self then grows and bloom. that way, he even also always will hope to will know you again and again.
10. don't pretend intimate
by dozens guy that ask around, why more opting girls be friend than be darling. one of [the] the answer, he may be felt connection with you too near, so that easier to made friend. well, when do you genuinely like same girl, best don't formerly pretend intimate. begicu. (/imaulana)

tips make a date

tips make a date

tips make a date
wanita that has programme self evening that will not easy impress with your pronunciation - but they actually will want you will invite merekalagi, as soon as may be. you must distinguish to when the he averses you feelingly hesitant - hesitant. try to look at the indication, when does he hesitant - hesitant, mean actually he wants to get your invitation, but he really there plan other. if he likes you so he will offered to replaced it at day other or he will give idea other. " moment he gives yellow lamp in you to invite it toes in other time, don't too desire with force upon to decide day and date whom you like. let the he is that determine it. because you of course not want to get denial again.
memperbaiki atmosphere clumsy your pronunciation consequence is doesn't approve of for him[s very easy. enough laugh at your self self because bertindakbodoh, and transfer discussion. perfect bobody, he will appreciate you if you know to how manner shifts atmosphere clumsy. all in a mess and sia sia if you only quiet.
kata to him that he allow you know it bearer, so you also want the he knows you are bearer again. for that, you berniatmengundang kerumah you to see family photo collection and your family. when does he approve it, new say to him that you have many dvd your bew buys. kamar you are appear likes to board with kosan student university? try to mendekorasi your room as simple as may be. don't strew flower sheath. hey, he new first time see you, don't until he of opinion that you out for lure into a trap it have to come to your room all day long this.
apa you do when you choose time imprecise? indicate that you have regretted make frivolous in situation, " sorry, may be a while ago not right time to disappoint you. " almost every woman conveniently will give to chance second for andawalau you have chosen wrong time in has chanced first.
jika all walk untimely bothing;there is no manner again besides delay your action. its way, you must postpone your kiss with sweet persuasion persuasion and hold on his arms smoothly. that way the he will forget that self berciuamn with you. so that there is no feeling clumsy in self.

what make girl happy?

what make girl happy?


obvious easy so make girl happy. origin knows their willing, you can be ideal guy at the eye. possible you do it, but may be less a little" flavor" . let us correct reading word girls hits this matter, may can be made inspiration!

1. can make it to smile when sad
2. funny, but know to when must serious
3. like to kiss the hair on the quiet
4. fondle the hair smoothly
5. circle hand at time the shoulder jjs at mal
6. not shy pull his arms
7. is want nemenin shopping although lazy
8. protect it but not curb
9. give input but not menggurui
10. listen when he speaks
11. let it to take decision
12. appreciate the decision
13. doesn't force upon wish
14. ready help if wanted
15. not tired of to phone just for say" hi" or " good night"
16. patient wait it to dress up
17. not angry fast if he makes error
18. cheap smile
10. has sense of joke
20. invite it to go to romantic places
21. willing drives 5 clocks, just for meet him 30 minutes
22. give kiss at cheek every meet
23. try to sang although hoarse husky your voice
24. not desist to stare the face
25. give surprise although solemn
26. give status clarity
27. can trusted
28. can watch over perasaa
29. good to people who near with him
30. try to stop to smoke, drink alcoholic drink and all bad behaviours

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

meaning love 5

love that a certain or everybody certain prnah feel it,
love as dew that want to make a martyr of leaf and grass,
- give ruthless at morning and willing on fire sunshine morning up to final steam.
- want to share good also happy.
love bot merely sex, not also comfort a moment, love that is beautiful every perjalana give lesson always can we take hikamah.
make to love something that so mempersona, and always constitute to love with belied and piety, so that every perjalan always at protect and ta blemish,
love can make us so poetic, but love ta make person is crazy, klo there that say “gila because cinta” that only a expression that overstated.
love really blind but love ta make person goes m.
happy lah, , one who easy fall in love

meaning love 4

int4”, why does public say to love what is the meaning of love actually rather than love that a feeling between two different mans incoming from heart and why many people swimmingly say to love and love while love that a god feeling/godsend to the creature that created with berpasangan, ,
so. . love to what that?
love not only be unfolded with kata_kata melai with:
attention
sacrifice
mutual understand and get to what existence
unconditional
there what a pity, miss, jealous, and suspicious
in moderation.
but although love a sacrifice don't until we sacrifice hargadiri we are by love before we are memjadi alive pair syah…
o. k…
cint4 that is beautiful, fun, sadden
the main love that is full warna_warni

meaning love 3

cinta……. .
love to come light out
love without know space time
we are there because love, love can change segala-gala
love dtang from feeling like affection
love at experience feelingly syang mutually understanding
love to go at constitute by taste suspicious mutual at salahkan….
what cinta…. . ? ?
love to lost, disappeared, like at swallow angin…….
what love not make us happy?
taste believes, suspicious, full of realita cinta….
experience, biological, and perttahankan on behalf of love.
ketahuilah………
love really beautiful can make everything nerubah, forget, haughty, sombongegois, khianati……. . can make us broken heart.
broken off to love really matter not menginginkan…menyakitkan…
we are monkeyed by feeling, heart is sliced to like cut buur, at betray seolah- process doesn't has feeling salah…di campa begit, at two, made to like choice goods as delicious as it at permainkan……. . from sweet words, feeling expression likes, syang and love, without know space and waktu……. .
love indah………. .
taste mutual believe, explanation, affection, honour, with troth, can decorate to love sejati…
ungkapan………
unfold to love one who try and know what is the meaning of love actually, really love to do not know space, time and age, any time can come and moment that can pergi….
one who understand to how feeling love at love to understand to what meaning loves, ngerti as which at hurt menghianati……. . bot all love that is cruel.
fall cinta……. .
one who try to know to return meaning meaning loves, learn from error.
doesn't mean to want to repeating painful times, disappointment, contrition that at feel. but want memperkokoh foundations love sesunguh, to find to return to love true.

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

meaning loves 2

meaning loves
like the saying of word next
will love not ever so beautiful if without friendship. . . . .
one always be
other cause and
the process. . . irreversible. . . . . .
a best lover friend
cool.
if you love somebody, don't hope
that that somebody
love you exactly on the contrary in
capacity same.
one between you will give more,
other be felted
less. . . . . . . . . . .
so also in case. you that look for,
and other
wait for. . . . . .
don't ever afraid to fall in love. . . .
may be so painful, and may be
causes you are ill and suffer. . . . .
but if you don't follow conscience, in
final you will cry. . . . . . .
far more smarting. . . because moment that realize
that is you never give. . . . love. that
a road.
love not merely feeling, but a
commitment. . . .
feeling can come and go off hand. . . . . .
love not must happy end. . . . .
because love must not end. . . . .
love true hear what not
said. . . .
and understand what is not explained, because
love doesn't come from lip and tongue or
idea. . . . . . . . .
but from heart.
when do you love, don't expect
whatever
as repayment, because
if you such, you not
love, but. . . . . investment.
if you love, you must ready for
get suffering.
because if you expect happiness, you
not
love. . . . but make use.
better lose selfrespect and ego
with somebody whom you
love from in lose somebody whom you
love, because ego that unnecessarily. . . . . . . .
how shall i say" congratulation
live" . . . .
to somebody never i
has? ? ? ? ? ? ?
why does tear drop fall by somebody
never be to belong to me? ? ? ? ?
why do i miss somebody not
ever
with me and kuberta,
why do i love somebody that love it
never to me? ? ? ?
very difficult bisect one who love one
same other when do they
live in two different worlds. . . . . . . . . .
but when does second this world melt and be
one, that's that called miracle! ! ! ! !
don't love somebody likes
flower, because
flower dies season time changes,
love them like river, because
river flows forever. . . . . . . .
will love may be will leave your heart
like kepingan2 glass,
but stick in your idea, that there is
somebody that will ready to
patch your wound with gather
return pecahan2 that glass. . . . .
so that you will be intact will return. . . . . .

what sih mean to love?

what sih mean to love?
sometimes we also confused, to interpret meaning loves, really that cloth is sometimes makes our heart is glad sometimes our heart hates in somebody.
they are doesn't like it to called it responsibility, they are that play with him, called it a game, they are doesn't have it, called it a fantasy, they are that love, called it fate. sometimes god that detect best, will give afflictions to will test us sometimes he even also will hurt heart, so that hikmat- can planted in. if we lose to love, so certain there reason at return it. reason sometimes difficult to memengerti, but we are permanent must believe that when he take a certain, he ready has given better. why wait? because although we want to take decision, we don't want in a hurry. because although we want hurry, we don't want frivolous. because although we want soon find one who we love, we don't want to lose our spirit in course of that livelihood. if we like to run, learn to walk duhulu, if we like to swim, learn to float formerly, if we like to loved, learn to love formerly. in the end, better wait one who we want, than choose what there. permanent better wait one who we love, than satisfy self by what there. permanent better wait one who correct, because this alive is too short to is letted pass with wrong choice, because wait has excellency aim and mysterious. necessary you know that flower doesn't blossom during last night, eternal city is not built in a day, life is knitted in uterus during nine months, love great then spring up during life. majority beautiful matter in life needs old ones time, and our waiting is is not in vain. although wait to want ba matter - belied, courage, and expectation -penantian menjanji one matter can not seorangpun conceive. in the end. god in all hikmat-, ask us wait, because important reason. cheer

meaning loves

meaning loves
is secercah hope whom you entrust to me
is sekeping love heart that can i call on
is handful dream that can you save to me. .
so that this fragment can ally return.
after asunder. .
cinta…
alive asa empty without you. .
this body is asa crashed
as building ruins
clutter without your affection touch. .
cinta…
everyone always call which you
everyone always want you
everyone tries to reached for you
cinta….
why is there always disturb you
why is there always monkey you
flatter you, membuai. .
then fling down you. .
cinta…
you too beautiful to hurt
you too valuable to monkeyed
you too perfect to flinged down.
cinta…
roger you are pearl basin melautan
always shine
send out light sparkling the light
although you stay in mud innermost. .
cinta….
a feeling that given by god in a pair human to saling…. (mutual love, mutual has, mutual fulfil, mutually understanding etc).
cinta……
can not forcible, love only ambulatory when second slit phiak do “saling” sebut…
cinta…. .
can not when can they individualistic.
because in connected, our pair is certain wishes for a attention more
and that only can at can from the pair explanation.
love give affection rather than chain.
love also can not forcible and incoming even also sometimes bot at expressly.
love beautiful but smarting meninggalkannya
sometimes go on longer from love itself.
limit loves and hate also very thin
but with love world whom we experience serasa lighter.
love that is somebody feeling towards the kind opponent
because interest towards has by the kind opponent (character for example, face and other other).
but need explanation and mutual realize to can continue connection,
must mutual cover deficit and receptive what the pair is existence,
without forcing by one of the parties.
share to like with and share sadness with.
cinta….
pure something that, white, honest and holy
arising out without compulsion existence or strained something that existence,
individual love that can make that man can motivat to do change better than before he knows to love that.
love that is holy something that and don't we stain to love holy that with ke-egoisan we
only wish for the delicious make us and not the delicious make you.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

The MEMILIKI

Pacaran MEANING something that was impressive and 'must be maintained' jika
indeed has a border.
Like said said along with:
The love would have not been so beautiful, if without the friendship..... yang
one always became the other cause and his process... adalah
irreversible......
A best lover was the greatest friend.
If kamu
loved someone, should not hope that someone that would mencintai
you precisely were the reverse in the same capacity.
One around kalian
will give more, that was other will be felt not all that........... Begitu
also in the love: you who searched, and so on will wait......
Don't had been frightened of falling in love.... possibly would begitu
painful, and possibly will cause you to be sick dan
suffered..... but if you did not follow conscience, in akhirnya
you will cry....... far more pain... because at that time kamu
realised that you had not given the love of a road.
The love not only the feeling, but a commitment.... the Feeling bisa
came and went just like that...... the Love must not berakhir
happy..... because the love must not end.....
The true love heard what was not said.... and understood what yang
was not explained, because the love did not come from the lip and the tongue atau
thoughts......... but from the HEART.
When you loved, don't hope for anything as the repayment, because if you were like this, you not loved, but..... investment.
If you loved, you must be ready to accept the suffering.
Karena
if you hoped for the happiness, you not loved.... melainkan
make use of.
It would be better if lost the self-esteem and your ego with someone that kamu
loved than lost someone who was loved by you, because egomu
that was not useful that........
Don't loved someone as the flower, because of the flower died the time musim
changed, loved them like the river, because of the river mengalir
forever......
The love will possibly leave your heart like fragments of glasses, but stuck in your thoughts, that there is someone that would bersedia
to mend your wound by gathering again fragments kaca
that..... So As you will become again intact.
Struggled through to could love true....!!!!!!

Advice cinta

Advice cinta
your one believed has found your love and your life couple, struggled got him and don't release your love.
Possibly your love plot was not as smooth as your friend's story or your parents, but when you wanted to struggle in order to love you, you will see in the love, everything will appear lebih
indah.Jangan motionless whereas trivial, my advice, if you could count all the mistakes and the attitude he who made you hate your couple, believed you will never sanggup
counted goodness, laughter and the happiness that he gave to you, and so the love.
The life was beautiful not because the road that must be passed through by us was easy but because of the life road to be difficult and complicated sometimes climbed and dove descended sharply and bergelombang and finally you akan
felt happy without remembering what was passed through by you if you wanted to stay firm by loving you.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

What of Cinta

What of Cinta

When your hands palm sweated, your heart dag dig dug, your voice be involved in tenggorokan
That BUKAN CINTA but LIKE!!
When your hands could not stop held and menyentuhnya
That BUKAN CINTA but the DESIRE!!
When you wanted him because you knew him always will be in sampingmu
That BUKAN CINTA but the LONELINESS!!
When you accepted his love statement because you did not want hurt hatinya
That BUKAN CINTA but PITY!!
When you were prepared to give all that was liked by you for the sake of dia
That BUKAN CINTA but MAGNANIMITY!!
When you were proud and always wanted to exhibit him to all orang
That BUKAN CINTA but LUCK!!
When you said to him that he was the only matter that you pikirkan
That BUKAN CINTA but the RAG!!
You MENCINTAINYA, Ketika you accepted the mistake he, because that was a part of kepribadiannya… When you were willing to give your heart, your life in fact kematianmu

When your heart was torn when he was sad, and bore interest when he bahagia
When you cried for his pain although he quite strong to menghadapinya
When you were interested to the other person but you were still loyal bersamanya

The LOVE was the SACRIFICE!!
Loved significant gave diri
the Love was the death from egoism and egosentrisme
Sometimes that was painful, but so the price that must be paid for a LOVE

Beauty women

To form the lip that captured, said goodness words.
To get the beautiful eyes, looked for goodness to anyone that you jumpai. to get the form of the slim body, distributed food with them who were hungry.
To get beautiful hair, asked a small child to comb him with his finger every day.
To get the beautiful body attitude, went with all science, and you will never walk was alone.
Humankind, far exceeded all the other creations.
Always must change, was renewed, was formed again, and was pardoned.
So, should not once kecilkan someone from your heart.
If you have carried out all those, remembered always.
If once you needed help, always will have the hands was extended.
And with your age increase, you would increasingly mensyukuri was given two hands, one to help yourself yourself and other to help the other person.
Beauty of the woman not was located to clothes that were put on, not in the form of the body, or the method he combed his hair.
Beauty of the woman was received to the eyes, the method he gazed at the world.
Because in his eyes was located the gate headed towards each heart of humankind, where the love could develop.
Beauty of the woman not in face refinement.
But in pure beauty, terpancar to his spirit, that fully the love gave attention and the love he gave.
And the beauty will grow for the length of time

Sunday, March 16, 2008

The Jodoh Mac

The Jodoh
Mac


EACH creature was created should not team up and be sad if you were still being alone, did not yet meet the agreeing couple.
If just started the friendship with someone, suddenly the telephone rang and accepted the call than the he, that it was considered one by chance?
Two humans that felt themselves like had the partner, must have the association of emotions, spirituality and fizikal between both of them.
Only by gazing at the eyes or hearing the voice, has been felt by the vibration and seemed to want to continue with him.
Really like that?
The other sign the he our partner or was the reverse?
Perhaps the sign along with might be made the escort.
- the secret of a pair of sweetheart had the age of long relations was the existence of the attitude co-operated with each other.
You and he could always help each other in the trivial or big affair.
Important was the two of you always could through all the aspects of the life together.
All of them were felt very pleasant despite without involving the other person.
Was he valid to yourself?
If yes, congratulations kerana had hope the he your prospective life partner.
- One of the criteria that was decisive appropriate or not he as the partner was his capacity to have a simple attitude in front of you.
Cuba pay attention to movement-geri him, the method dressed, the style of hair, the speaking method as well as his laughter.
Did each one of his statements always appear spontaneous and was not feigned?
If not, sorry the big possibility he not your partner.
- the Existence deria spiritual seem like could be read by the he?
If you or the he could read mutual thoughts and expected the reaction as well as the feeling between to one another in the certain situation, possibly he the happiness that was looked for.
- Bersamanya could make the feeling became calm, selesa and without the feeling of the pressure that placed.
For hours with him even each kind of time and every day immediately did not scrape the bored feeling, so the sign the two of you will in the future be tied by each other.
- he often inside any the situation.
He also often understood the happiness and sorrow that was experienced by you.
Believe, the couple who had the partner was definitely not frightened of experiencing the rise and fall and the happiness and sorrow during together.
Remembered came back, was there he

Saturday, March 8, 2008

The Cinta meaning

The Cinta
meaning
Is there secercah hope that was sent by you untukku

Is there a sliver of heart love that could I singgahi

Is there a dream fist that could be kept by you for me..
So that this fragment could be again united.
After being destroyed in pieces..
Cinta…
The life was felt empty without you..
This body was felt hancur

Like building ruins
That was scattered about without the touch of your love..
Cinta…
Anyone always called manamu

Anyone always membutuhkanmu

Anyone tried menggapaimu

Cinta….
Why was that always mengganggumu

Why was that always mempermainkanmu

Persuaded you, stroked you..
Afterwards threw out you..
Cinta…
You were too beautiful to disakiti

You were too valuable to dipermainkan

You were too perfect to be thrown out.
Cinta…
Be you like pearls dilautan

That always bersinar

Radiated his light that berkilauan

Although you were in mud that most in..
Cinta….
A feeling that was given by the Lord to a pair of humankind to saling…. (loved each other, had each other, filled each other, mutual understanding etc.).
Cinta……
Could not be forced, the love could only go if the 2 cracks phiak did "each other" tersebut…
Cinta…..
Could not go if they considered themselves important.
Because in being connected, our couple must want an attention lebih

And that only could in could from the understanding of his couple.
The love was to give the affection not the chain.
The love could not be also forced and the arrival then sometimes in a manner not in deliberate.
The beautiful love but pain that ditinggalkannya

Sometimes took place older than the love personally.
The love limit and hated also very much tipis

But by loving the world that was undergone by us feel like lighter.
The love the feeling someone towards the opponent jenisnya

Because ketertarikan against something that was owned by the opponent of his kind (for example the characteristics, the face and so on other).
However was needed by the understanding and understood each other to be able to continue relations,
Must covered mutual lacks and wanted to receive his couple the way it is,
Without forcing by one of the sides.
Shared liked together and shared the sadness together.
Cinta….
Something that was pure, white, sincere and suci

That emerged without the existence of the force or the existence something that was feigned,
Privately the love could make the person could be motivated to carry out the change that better than before he knew the love.
The love something that was holy and don't we stained the holy love with to-egoisan kita

That only wanted was glad him for us and

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Thought One of Cinta

Thought One of Cinta



Quiet in the LOVE, the echo of the guitar that was reaped produced the rhythm of the heart complaint that penetrated to the deepest part of the inner person.
Kerana CINTA, all of them were felt.
Art in the LOVE channelled the feeling that covered heart space.
Kerana all the corners mahukan the longing berbening.
The tear and the LOVE could not be separated; the example aur with tebing.
From time to time the LOVE changed, from time to time the tear fell.
When the pitch dark heart kerana the LOVE that was separated, thundered the restless feeling all day.
And the night felt long, the blowing wind was felt to be very cold.
At that time all the submissions lived was said in front.
All dark and not still was felt to be beautiful would in depani.
Was like this rentak music followed entered the spirit as the substitute for the quiet entertainer.
Is there that was played by the M. Nasir guitar not than the sensitivity?
Possibly the birth of the song as loving Sepi, Demi Masa and from Kekasih to Kekasih when he was proposeded to kasmaran that was horrifying.
The LOVE from the heart a person had the spirit of art was too deep.
Then was born art from the very quiet heart.
The guitar extract, geseran the violin and the sweet voice wave too much were needed in quiet time from the revolving LOVE cruel.
When the game of the feeling too far dozed, then nature changed the face.
We and no longer was in the wild that was real, but the illusion will be stronger controlled around your noodles marrow.
All kewarasan will be stopped instantly and realiti was as true as the forgotten life for a moment.
Naturally CINTA that was borne made the LOVE kebuntuan solved the living trip.
True Azman Husin words, "CINTA made an intellectual become stupid," to consider in the situation realiti was as true
The night, the month and the star, was the principle in the life that always took turns harmonious between the LOVE and the longing, restless and jealous.
Maybe will be answered by all the engrossing restless tumults the heart.
Finally LOVE philosophy would terbias in the quiet peak.
Beside all the poems and poetry was born in foot the night as the method released quiet.
Only kerana the LOVE, the heart of humankind could be softened.
The change in the behaviour could be also felt apparently LOVE nature began.
Is there after the ending of LOVE nature could cook nature and thinking?
And in case disappointment that was experienced has been forgotten, maybe we were more careful in something that had the shape of the feeling?
The LOVE as one kemestian.
Adakala CINTA began very appropriate and slow.
From the door to his heart had threads and old kelamaan a roll of the love tersimpul tight in the heart.
The LOVE must be fostered to always fresh and greenness like dedaun that sparkled was poured the morning light.
The LOVE was too beautiful.
A beauty of the example sejambak the pretty flower, coloured-warni, fresh, fragrant and fragrant if being affected by his composition.
And the flower that was chosen than the fertile kind and just blossomed from the sheath.
If we were good at to arrange him, increasingly shining the LOVE.
And if most wrong his composition, the LOVE that was dreamt of not more shining and not the scent covered the atmosphere of the soul.
Not who was willing appreciated the LOVE that was given.

The loneliness made the LOVE to be increasingly deep.
The LOVE than the quiet and shy girl was the true characteristics.
The quiet and embarrassed characteristics made the LOVE from his heart flowed to that one.
The LOVE of a village girl was full of loyalty and honesty.
His social relations with friends that always limited caused him only adequate recognised that diCINTAi him.
Increased by atmosphere solitude of the peaceful village, most foreign and far from city confusion that always false was full kepuraan the LOVE.
In the life gap of the village was covered quiet, the LOVE became the main focus in the heart of a village adolescent.
The LOVE was born in the heart kerana solitude and the loneliness often invited to yearning.
From yearning produced various penyeksaan yearning for the heart and the LOVE were holy in case being restricted by the islamic canon law base.
The LOVE of a village girl was full was complicated and went through the thorny mine.
Not what could cheer the heart but a sliver of photograph as the antidote up.
In night time, the coldness of air, mute him was natural from bunyian was rinsed from very vague the month light invited the matter of the playing beginning LOVE in the heart.
Not the friend spoke, the LOVE in the quite raging heart.
Various views and the interpretation came berombak-wave with the feeling of the sadness in the heart.
Is it possible that that diCINTAi could not be owned?
Day after day, the LOVE increasingly sprouted in dakapan the day when running.
In diari the feeling diluahkan in order to look for peace of mind.
In the inner person's garden of the LOVE was united to melakar lived in the wild that was dreamt of
The LOVE of the city girl also was very rare loyalty was appreciated and liked to bargain CINTA him.
Easily his heart changed and changed obeyed the taste.
The memory that was developed was easy to blow went to be like dusts increasingly flew.
Wide social relations extinguished the feeling of the LOVE that one and in depth his preoccupation.
Rare loyalty was honored kerana the LOVE that one mengheningi not be stuck to firm in the heart.
The activity of time became stuck the feeling of the LOVE flowed swift in the sweetheart.
Even the LOVE that was born liked to die if something that happened apart from the assumption.
His summit in perCINTAan many cases might be valid.
That must become normal the failure in menggapai the LOVE will bring the impression in a manner indirectly to peribadi himself.
The strength stage dalaman the spirit was left to himself to face the feeling conflict that always shadowed itself.
Perhaps often has emerged the Laila Majnun character that was not known by the public.
And perhaps also he was in right and left you?
The look humankind around with the heart eyes and the rough eyes.
Definitely you will meet something that was new.
And possibly gave the meaning.
Tanya in the heart, renunglah to a star.
Where his location the LOVE in the life?
The look at dusk, nescaya what was hidden gave the meaning.
And we must feel will THINK ONE CINTA…

Love, love, Minat Dan Suka

Love, love, Minat Dan Suka



The love - we indeed expected him to become our property.
All what we for, if buleh nak he knew.. and we sebuleh possibly not nak sakitkan the heart dia. we will always think about himself.
(in erti other: the love in aimed to someone yg we always remembered and the dream..
Without him we would the loneliness and we cintakan sepenuh the spirit with the heart yg sincere to him although he for not tau je)
Love - we needed him in our period mahukan someone to be in partnership the secret and the story of the sorrow kita. always him we will regret someone who became ears to our problem.
(in erti other: love in aimed to someone that might membuangkan really he to hear and make his head dizzy dgn our problem and we jugak might be painful the heart he kerana we not the love to him)
Liked - was cheered up by us he kerana he the joke.
He happy-five-lucky.
When being with him, we the feeling nak tergelak until nak broke out the stomach.
But, we not the longing really the card he when not meeting seminggu… (in erti other: liked in aimed to someone who might become the comedian to us.
We will tell him to be quiet sekirang him keng we dah nak pecah…)
The interest - What something to himself who attracted us to mendekatinya. (in erti other: the interest was aimed to someone available the characteristics, peribadi or the thing that we mahukan…)
But we be hit by remembered that without the interest, liked and love we will not love someone itu

WHAT MEANING THAT the LOVE?

WHAT MEANING THAT the LOVE?
Sometimes we were also confused, to interpret the meaning of the love, indeed the feelings sometimes made our heart happy sometimes our heart hated someone.
they who did not like him mentioned him responsibility, they who played with him, mentioned him a game, they who did not have him, mentioned him a dream, they that loved, mentioned him fate.
Sometimes the Lord that knew that was best, will give the difficulty to test us Sometimes Ia then injured the heart, that his wisdom could be planted in.
If we lost the love, then must have the reason over it.
The reason that sometimes was difficult to be understood, but we continue to must believe that when he took something, he was ready gave that was better.
Why was waiting?
Because although we wanted to take the decision, we not want to rushed.
Because although we want to very fast, we not want to at random.
Because although we wanted immediately to find the person who was loved by us, we did not want to lose our identity in the process of the search.
If wanting to run, learned to go duhulu, If wanting to swim, learned to float beforehand, If wanting to be loved, studied loved beforehand.
In the long run, better was waiting for the person who was wanted by us, compared with choosing what available.
Stay better was waiting for the person who was loved by us, compared with satisfying himself with what available.
Stay better waited for the exact person, because of this life to be too short to be passed with the wrong choice, because of being waiting to have the noble and mysterious aim.
Must be learnt by you that the Flower did not blossom in time overnight, the Rome City was not built in a day, the Life was knitted in the uterus for nine months, the great Love continued to grow for the life.
Most matters that were beautiful in the life needed a long time, And our waiting not was in vain.
Although being waiting needed ba him the matter - faith, courage, and hope -waiting promised one matter that could not a single imagined.
In the long run.
The lord in all of his wisdom, asked us to be waiting, for reasons of that was important.
Cheer,
The love

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

meaning love

The meaning of the Love
Want to be said by me the meaning of the Kepadamu love the friend So that you understand the meaning of the love actually will not fall asleep and was brought by Harumnya the love flower that will make yourself the misery
The holy love extraordinary the Blessing from that the Power to all of his slaves
In himself each kind of humankind was full of the feeling of the love to the wealth, the throne, and humankind But the love to that Esa Di Atas all that the certain Happiness will arrive
The holy love extraordinary Fithrah for Affection humankind from Pencipta
Don't you turned away from the Love love from that Maha Pencipta you must be tempted by the eternal Love Only had the love made himself happy to Allah then

meaning of love

The love, made happy, the sorrow or blind.
The love was full of the sacrifice, bitterness, beauty and the warmth.
The love was a wish to give without must ask for anything, but the love will become more beautiful if both of them gave each other and received, so as the warmth, the harmony and togetherness underwent the life could be reached.
CInta was words that had many meanings, depended how we placed him in the life.
Ai wa atatakai koto da.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

meaning love

The love was the gift that was not appraised him and that in gave to the most perfect creature, humankind.
The love could not be said with words, could not be described with the language apaun.
The love could be only read with the love language but also with the feeling.
The love was perasaanyang universal, not mengenalgender, the age, the ethnic group or the race.
Did not care about the love with the peer mansuia, with plants, the animal, the soft spirit, or with Pencipta.
Moreover, cintaitu blind.
Blind same degnan groped.
Jadi… the love felt-raba… (^o^) /… fondled the contents of the heart that dicinta…

meaning of love

The love the feeling someone towards the opponent of his kind because ketertarikan against something that was owned by the opponent of his kind (for example the characteristics, the face and so on other).
However was needed by the understanding and understood each other to be able to continue relations, must covered mutual lacks and wanted to receive his couple the way it is, without forcing by one of the sides.
Shared liked together and shared the sadness together.

The love was something that was pure, white, sincere and holy that emerged without the existence of the force or the existence something that was feigned, according to me personal the love could make the person could be motivated to carry out the change that lebihb aik than before he knew the love.
The love something that was holy and don't we stained the holy love with to-egoisan we that only wanted was glad him for us and will be glad him for you.
TIPS; to preserve the love was needed by the UNDERSTANDING!

meaning love

The love was a feeling that was given by the Lord to a pair of humankind to saling….
(loved each other, had each other, filled each other, mutual understanding etc.).
The love personally in no way could be forced, the love only could brjalan if the 2 cracks phiak did "each other" tersebut… the love could not go if they considered themselves important.
Because in being connected, our couple must want an attention more and that only could in could from the understanding of his couple.

The love was to give the affection not the chain.
The love could not be also forced and the arrival then sometimes in a manner not in deliberate.
CInta beautiful but pain that was left by him sometimes took place older than the love personally.
The love limit and hated also very thin but by loving the world that was undergone by us feel like lighter